Well I am married now to an amazing man, Joe, and things have been great! It is funny though, every time I see 'Single' friends they always ask me the same question. "How is married life?"
Well to all of you that are wondering, married life is great! It is not what I expected, because I expected it to be some BIG change. However, married life was a fairly smooth transition. Given we are still working on how we want to do things and what happens if this event occurs; but being married is very similar to the dating process and being engaged. We are both still getting to know each other, sharing stories, finding out dislikes, likes, learning, growing, and building our lives together. The only major difference is now we live together and do not have to say good bye at night. And that is a much welcomed change.
There are some adjustments that have needed to be made; such as calling his family mine, realizing I do not have to explain who my brothers are, and the last name is a bit tricky. However, these changes are welcomed, even though they may take time to adjust to.
Another expectation that I had of marriage was that once you are husband and wife you know everything there is to know about the other person. So after a while husbands and wives had nothing left to learn about the other person. This is completely false. I am still getting to know my husband and just the other day he learned something about me that he did not know. I am glad that I realized that we still needed to learn about each other now, because I feel that this will be beneficial down the road as we continually change. Good communication between husband and wife is a key to keeping a good relationship going; at least that is what I am taught at school and it makes sense.
So for all of you who were wondering... "How is married life"... life is good, different but good.
:)